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Dolly M. Hoerstkamp, 88 of New Haven, Missouri, passed away on Saturday, July 26, 2025 at her home.
Dolly was born in New Haven, Missouri on August 26, 1936 , the daughter of the late Hercial & Ruthie (Cochran) Harlan.
She was the widow of Charles H. Hoerstkamp. They were united in marriage in 1953 at Assumption Church, New Haven, Missouri. Together they had five children, Eva, Amy, Diane, Myrna and Hugo.
Dolly is survived by her five children; Eva Santoyo & husband Jerry, of Columbia; Amy McDaris, of New Haven; Diane Tritch, of New Haven; Myrna Schwoeppe & husband James, of New Haven; and Hugo Hoerstkamp & wife Donna, of New Haven; she is also survived by her siblings, Dorothy Ketchem, of Wentzville;, Martha Veach, of Jonesburg; Wayne Harlan, of Holts Summit; & Willard Harlan, of Wellsville, 12 grandchildren, and many great-grandchildren, and great-great grandchildren.
Dolly was preceded in death by parents, her husband , siblings, Susie Pogue, Mary Lee, Lela Hale, Walter & William Harlan, & a son in-law Rich Tritch.
After being a homemaker and raising her children she worked as a L.P.N. at the New Haven Care Center. She also volunteered for the Meals on Wheels program and she was a member of the American Legion Auxiliary for 60 plus years.
Visitation will be held Tuesday, July 29th, from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the Toedtmann & Grosse Funeral Home in New Haven. A funeral mass will be held Wednesday at 10:00 a.m. at Assumption Church, in New Haven.
Burial will be at the Assumption Cemetery, New Haven. Memorials are requested to New Haven Senior Center.